Guest Posts

Women and Erectile Dysfunction – New Superdrug Survey

UK cosmetic, health product and pharmaceutical retailer Superdrug have released the results of a new survey discussing erectile dysfunction - from a woman's perspective. The survey aims to help women understand ED and open up conversations between partners who are dealing with the issue first-hand.

Puppy Play For Mistress – Chastity Tease And Orgasm Denial

Puppy Play For Mistress is a short FemDom story written for me by one of my submissives. He's so very much into chastity tease and orgasm denial, as well as being made to act like a puppy... wagging tail, begging, barking for dinner - you get the idea. I hope you enjoy this story as much I repeatedly do. Happy Fetish Friday.
Sex As A Single Parent by Sallyanne Rogers

Sexuality and Parenthood: Sex As A Single Parent

Parenthood of any variety complicates your sex life, first of all. If you’re on your own with children, it might seem all but impossible to find time to date, shag or even schedule a few minutes for a quick wank, particularly if your kids are still very small. But if you’ve got to the point where you really do feel the need for a bit of adult action, it’s not impossible to find it.

How to find subspace together this Valentine’s Day

Whether you agree with Valentine’s Day or not, February always brings out the romantic side of a relationship. Whether you bring your partner home a bunch of flowers, or you prefer to cuddle on the sofa with a takeaway and a film, it’s a time to celebrate your ‘togetherness’. For couples in a BDSM relationship, Valentine’s Day is a great reason to lock the door, dig out your collection of kinky treats and find subspace together.

How To Write Erotica With All Your Senses

Fellow writers of all things erotic: we’re in the business of being sensual, but today I don’t mean that in the smexy- sexy way we usually do. I’m talking about including all the various senses in your sex scenes. It sounds pretty simple and kind of obvious but believe you me it isn’t as straight forward as it looks.

Dirty Talk Tips: “Using Your Words” in role-play

By Cameryn Moore In my last column, I laid out a few ways and reasons for you to sound like yourself when you’re having sex. Today, I’m going to share with you some ways to sound like someone else, in a short discussion of the vocal aspects of role-play.

A single person’s average number of lovers

By Hella Rude I had a silly idea about a sexual equation to create an Averaged Singleton Statement to determine a single person's average number of lovers. A true reflection of our sexual habits would take into account the number of relationships we have had, how long those relationships last and the number of years we have been sexually active, so why not use that information to create a generalised representation of our single habits?

The Seven Deadly Sex Sins: Lust

By Jon Pressick When it comes to sex, lust takes centre stage. Desire and craving are deliciously intertwined with sex—as they should be! Whether you’re in a committed relationship or keeping your sex casual, an absence of lust could indicate potential problems in your appetite for that situation.
Female Sexual Anatomy Clitoris and Inner Labia

Sex Anatomy Talk: The Clitoris and Inner Labia

By Hella Rude Today a lady mentioned that she hates her inner labia. This statement always sends a pang to my heart because I feel that female anatomy is so misunderstood. It is not part of our culture to understand the intimate and intricate detailing of our bodies, especially those parts which offer the most pleasure.

Absolute submission vs safe, sane & sensible BDSM

Absolute submission vs safe, sane & sensible BDSM We can’t even blame 50 Shades for the idea of ‘absolute’ submission, because it’s been around for at least 30 years. And, while Anastasia Steele might be a vacant fumbletrumpet who appears to have reached adulthood without even knowing what an email is, she does dump Creepy Christian more than once and even answers back from time to time.

Ostinato sex toys offer crowd-sourced orgasms with ‘virtual intimacy’ online community app

Ostinato is an impressive sex toy which can take you to higher levels of self-pleasure. It is very easy to use and mobile in nature. It has a very delicate and light feeling. Its shape is such that it fits your body as if your body were designed for the Ostinato sex toy.
how to write body positive erotica by victoria blisse

How To Write Body Positive Erotica

Happy New Year! Welcome to your neuroses. It’s the time of year when the advertisers look into your soul, pull out all your worst insecurities and try to sell you some crap to make it all better. So to counteract the media wanting you to lose weight, enlarge your boobs, whiten your teeth and iron out your wrinkles I’m going to focus on being body positive and how you can practically add that to your work.