Guest Posts

A Quick Guide to eXXXtreme Dirty Talk, by Cameryn Moore

By Cameryn Moore Calling someone greedy, for example, and making them beg desperately for getting fucked, this is a classic domination combo. The same derogatory names that really hurt on the playground—“fattie”, “sissy”, “faggot”, racial slurs—can be put to good use in humiliation scenes. Even calling a person’s junk something that normally squicks them out—“cunt” instead of “pussy”—can flip your partner into a different and sizzling-hot headspace.

How to Write Menage Erotica | Erotic Writing Tips & Advice

More is more, right? I’m definitely not a minimalist as the state of my living room would attest to but I’m also not minimal in my writing world either. Anyone who knows me will clarify how very good I am at waffling. So in stories it just makes sense that I’m going to write about more than just a one on one love story every now and then. Welcome to the wonderful world of menage erotica; threesomes, foursomes and as- many-as-you-can-manage-somes.

The Seven Deadly Sex Sins: Gluttony

By Jon Pressick The idea of sex addiction is a controversial subject that is still hotly debated. Simply put, some people believe sex addiction is a thing and others do not. It is a polarising discussion among academics and educators that leaves everyone—particularly those who may or may not be sex addicts—wondering if there is a pathology involved in their behaviours or not. As such, potential treatments are left up in the air as to whether they are effective or even necessary.
Gentlemen Prefer Blondes Why Does Blonde Hair Make Men Tick?

Gentlemen Prefer Blondes

We all know the saying 'gentlemen prefer blondes'. So what's the secret behind their appeal? It seems that it's built into the male DNA to have a preference for women with blonde hair, whether it's natural or from a bottle. Why? Is it purely down to sex appeal?

Women and Erectile Dysfunction – New Superdrug Survey

UK cosmetic, health product and pharmaceutical retailer Superdrug have released the results of a new survey discussing erectile dysfunction - from a woman's perspective. The survey aims to help women understand ED and open up conversations between partners who are dealing with the issue first-hand.

Puppy Play For Mistress – Chastity Tease And Orgasm Denial

Puppy Play For Mistress is a short FemDom story written for me by one of my submissives. He's so very much into chastity tease and orgasm denial, as well as being made to act like a puppy... wagging tail, begging, barking for dinner - you get the idea. I hope you enjoy this story as much I repeatedly do. Happy Fetish Friday.
Sex As A Single Parent by Sallyanne Rogers

Sexuality and Parenthood: Sex As A Single Parent

Parenthood of any variety complicates your sex life, first of all. If you’re on your own with children, it might seem all but impossible to find time to date, shag or even schedule a few minutes for a quick wank, particularly if your kids are still very small. But if you’ve got to the point where you really do feel the need for a bit of adult action, it’s not impossible to find it.

How to find subspace together this Valentine’s Day

Whether you agree with Valentine’s Day or not, February always brings out the romantic side of a relationship. Whether you bring your partner home a bunch of flowers, or you prefer to cuddle on the sofa with a takeaway and a film, it’s a time to celebrate your ‘togetherness’. For couples in a BDSM relationship, Valentine’s Day is a great reason to lock the door, dig out your collection of kinky treats and find subspace together.

How To Write Erotica With All Your Senses

Fellow writers of all things erotic: we’re in the business of being sensual, but today I don’t mean that in the smexy- sexy way we usually do. I’m talking about including all the various senses in your sex scenes. It sounds pretty simple and kind of obvious but believe you me it isn’t as straight forward as it looks.

Dirty Talk Tips: “Using Your Words” in role-play

By Cameryn Moore In my last column, I laid out a few ways and reasons for you to sound like yourself when you’re having sex. Today, I’m going to share with you some ways to sound like someone else, in a short discussion of the vocal aspects of role-play.

A single person’s average number of lovers

By Hella Rude I had a silly idea about a sexual equation to create an Averaged Singleton Statement to determine a single person's average number of lovers. A true reflection of our sexual habits would take into account the number of relationships we have had, how long those relationships last and the number of years we have been sexually active, so why not use that information to create a generalised representation of our single habits?

The Seven Deadly Sex Sins: Lust

By Jon Pressick When it comes to sex, lust takes centre stage. Desire and craving are deliciously intertwined with sex—as they should be! Whether you’re in a committed relationship or keeping your sex casual, an absence of lust could indicate potential problems in your appetite for that situation.