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Now That’s What I Call Smart Phone Sex

We've all at one point had that urge where your partner's away on business for a few days and you're lying in bed feeling frisky just at the sound of their voice. So what do you do - give them a ring and have them talk dirty whilst you reach for the sex toy in the bedside drawer?
Female anorgasmia - never had an orgasm sex tips advice and help

Sex Tips – I’ve never had an orgasm (anorgasmia)

There are a lot of different reasons a man or woman might suffer from anorgasmia, or the inability to reach orgasm. Physiology, biochemistry, psychological issues and age are all attributed to anorgasmia and it's a condition more commonly found in women than in men. Treatment for men with anorgasmia is much further advanced than it is for women and is often associated with erectile dysfunction.

Can You Get Jiggle Balls for Men?

By Hella Rude You can opt for the real jiggle ball experience as a man, you just have to be willing to experiment with a little anal play. Jiggle balls and Ben Wa balls are actually modelled on pelvic floor exercisers or PC muscle toners, articles designed to tone the pelvic floor region in women. A sexy side effect of these pleasure balls is G-spot massage and the potential for orgasm.

Why Can’t I Keep My Butt Plug In? How Long Can I Wear An...

By Hella Rude Try to get used to wearing the plug and allow yourself to forget about it. Pop it in, stick on a movie and veg out. Just relax and do nothing at all. You want to clear your mind of any sexy thoughts and just stop thinking about it. Your body will relax around it and start to get used to it being there, just give it time to acclimatise to the sensations. Lots of people find that when they forget the plug's there, keeping it in is easy work.

Do vibrating clit clamps exist & where can I buy one?

I was wondering if there is such a thing as vibrating clit clamps? I want to turn her into a quivering, gasping mess. I've used rabbits but they seem to lack something, but I know her clit doesn't get enough from them.

How to do kegel exercises with Ben Wa Balls, Jiggle Balls and Silver Balls

By Hella Rude So you've heard all of the hype and now you've got your silver balls. What happens next? Don't feel alone if you've got your pleasure balls home and you're stumped, it's not always immediately obvious. Lots of brands don't send out any instructional leaflets with their products, making it difficult to know if you need to do anything at all. The good news is that getting the most out of your kegel exercisers, Ben Wa balls, jiggle balls and silver balls is actually really easy. You just need to know how to do kegel exercises with them.

The Official Fifty Shades of Grey Sex Toys and Bondage Gear

By Hella Rude Earlier this year, Lovehoney secured the rights to release a range of sex toys and bondage gear aimed at Fifty Shades fans looking to experiment. The range of Pleasure Products were designed closely with E L James to bring the paraphernalia in the book to life, as well as adding some must-tries for those already reaping the rewards of the seeds sewn by the book. After months of hard work by everyone involved, the products have finally gone live on Lovehoney.co.uk.

How Do I Become a Nude/Fetish/Glamour Model/Photographer?

By Hella Rude I get asked a lot by models, photographers and designers about breaking into modelling, how to find models or to become a well-respected photographer and how to choose the best people to work with to enhance a brand. I'm by no means an oracle, but I now have a good 250-odd photo shoots under my belt and I've been working as a model for eight years so I guess I have something to say on the subject.

Monogamy, Polygamy and Polyamory – What Do They Mean to Modern Society?

By Hella Rude While enjoying the decadent pleasures of Sziget Festival in Budapest I received a call from Lovehoney's PR requesting some press quotes on the subject of polygamy. Unfortunately the context wasn't explained fully and from a transcribed explanation of the differences between polygamy and polyamory, a relatively confusing series of quotations were published in relation to an article on Female First.

Fifty Shades of Grey Sex Toy Advice – A Sexual Revolution

By Hella Rude Who would have thought that fan fiction could be responsible for such a change in attitude toward sex toys? The sex toy business is booming thanks to new-found popularity fueled by three books and a whole lot of media coverage. Women who haven't read since school are devouring some pretty meaty books and are simultaneously acting to improve their sex lives.

Fifty Shades of Grey Sex Tips For Men

By Hella Rude This one's for the guys. The ones who have girlfriends who are reading Fifty Shades of Grey. The ones who are wondering what it's about and how to get in on it without reading it. As per usual, padré, the internet has done the hard work for you and you can now get the abridged 411 of Mr Christian Grey in the form of sex advice. Pretty cool, huh?

Fifty Shades of Grey – What is BDSM?

By Hella Rude If you're new to this blog, stumbled across it because Google told you it might be what you're looking for because you've read Fifty Shades and want silver balls, handcuffs, Christian Grey or just some more information about bondage, or BDSM in general... you're in the right place.