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Kinky Valentine’s Day Ideas: The Alternative Romance Of BDSM

By Cara Sutra: Hearts, flowers, wine, chocolates, greeting cards… all this and more equates to the very best in romance that you can give your partner on Valentine’s Day, to prove your depth of feeling for them. So says commercialism, anyway.

I’m A Secret Submissive | Why Female Submission Is A Private Kink For Me

By Cara Sutra: For me, female submission is an entirely sexual act, not a lifestyle choice or a facet of my personality. I submit to my partner for my pleasure, as well as for his. The act of him taking pleasure in my sexual submission or bedroom roleplay keys into an underlying vanity.

Shouty Dominants: Kinky or Abusive?

By Cara Sutra: Are shouty Dominants kinky or abusive? When you think of shouting in a the usual sense, you will probably experience certain visualisations. A couple mid-row. A parent chastising a child. Maybe you recall a personal, perhaps painful, memory.

Is Your Kink Identity Written In Your DNA?

By Cara Sutra: Can you inherit a kinky orientation? Is your kink identity written in your DNA? I really believe it is. I don't think you choose to be Dominant, submissive, or switch. Those labels that I'd call your kink identity.

What Makes Bondage Fucking Sexy?

By Cara Sutra: What is bondage? Why does the world seem obsessed with it right now? What is it that makes bondage fucking sexy?

Fetish Friday: 5 reasons you want a Mistress to sit on your face

Facesitting and Queening Facesitting is the act of, well, sitting on a person's face. Clue's in the name, really. Why would anyone do this? It's...

Fetish Friday: Owning a slave from a Mistress’ point of view

Of course I do love the kink aspects of D/s, in particular, long term male chastity, male humiliation, foot worship and suchlike. I definitely do NOT have sexual contact with any submissives or slaves.

Fetish Friday: Tricho treat for facial hair fetishists

Facial Hair Fetish It's Friday once more, so I turn my attention to a particularly fascinating fetish or other interesting area of BDSM. Knocking out...

Fetish Friday: Maid to Serve

There's something about a maid which calls to the pervert in all of us. Is it the outfit? Is it the submissive attitude? Is...

Fetish Friday: What’s the fuss about Waxplay?

For newbies to waxplay, the back is a good area to start. There is a broad surface area acting as the target, and the skin is not as sensitive as some other regions. Leave the genital areas, tummy and breasts until you are more confident about your wax tolerance levels.

The day I met my submissive of 6 years: his update

You will remember that I was meeting 'denied', my submissive of 6 years, for the first time last Friday. This is his update after...

Fetish Friday: Today I meet my submissive of 6 years

Terrible lighting and focussed on his face only briefly... just in case. Sessions of him milking into a pet bowl, licking up the consequences. Having to bark in order to be able to touch himself.