Commissioned Articles

commissioned and personal writings from Cara SutraCommissioned Articles at Cara Sutra

Here you can find articles and blog posts which Cara Sutra has been commissioned to write here at the UK’s best sexuality magazine.

“If you think that all sex begins and ends with penis-in-vagina, you are wrong on so many levels. And I’m talking about everyone there, but for the purposes of this article: especially women who love women, whether bisexual or lesbian. There are plenty of creative ways to tantalise and stimulate without resorting to the heteronormative, phallo-centric ideals society often loves to *ahem* thrust upon us.”
– The best sex toys to use for amazing lesbian sex

“I’m here to put your fears to bed about some of the more unusual materials sex toys can be made from. It may surprise you to learn that not all vibrators and dildos are made from flexible materials such as jelly, silicone or PVC. Perhaps you’ve never seen any other type of sex toy than the ‘bendy’ sort. In reality, there’s a whole world of alternative materials to get to grips with, each with their own unique appeal and other advantages.”
– Busting popular myths about ceramic, metal and glass dildos

“The noises coming from the girls now could make you come just to hear it. It was making my cock surge and pulse listening to them enjoy each other so much. Letting my cock spring free of my boxers, I manoeuvred myself so I was behind the pair of them. I used Raven’s waist to steady me, my hands on her sensational curves, occasionally putting a hand down to guide me in. I needed to be inside my girl first.”
– Fulfilling our hotel threesome fantasy (commissioned erotica)

 

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Phone Sex Lines – Relationship Help or Hindrance?

It's not all hearts and roses. For adults in a committed relationship, there can be times when keeping a relationship alive and happy is a real struggle. Couples can find themselves battling against one or more of the most popular issues to beset relationships with challenging times.

How To Make Time For Sexy Time With A Busy Life

By Cara Sutra: Sexy time is important time. It doesn't matter whether you're involved in a relationship or single, whether you're male or female. Regardless of your personal circumstances, making time to satisfy your sexual needs should be a priority for every adult. A big question, though, is how to make time for sexy time with a busy life?

Talking Dirty – How, Why and What’s the big deal?

Just what is talking dirty? Why do people like it? How do you talk dirty? Where do you go for tips and advice?

How to become a Dominant in the bedroom

"Being Dominant" encompasses a lot more than merely slapping some handcuffs on your chosen 'submissive' and flailing around with a flogger, enjoying the sound of your own berating voice. Here, however, we will be looking at what may be your first foray into the world of Dominance over your partner - in a mutually enjoyable and completely consensual way, of course.

BDSM & FemDom Advice: Kink Compatibility in D/s Relationships

You crave nothing more than her largest strap-on wedged firmly up your ass. She, on the other hand, insists you spend the day doing the dishes dressed in sissy frills and heels. However, you're not a sissy and she doesn't own any strap on harnesses. How could things have gone so wrong?

10 ways to make couples foreplay truly sensational for both of you

Where is your sex life at? Is it still as breathtaking and magical as in the honeymoon period, or just a quick roll under the...

Do Straight Women Have Lesbian Fantasies?

By Cara Sutra: Do straight women have lesbian fantasies? Perhaps this is something you've been wondering, as your mind strays towards bi-curious thoughts during daydreams.

BDSM & FemDom Advice: Lifestyle versus Professional Domination

There is a world of difference between a talented Dominant who is financially recompensed for her time and talents, and a sex worker who chooses to incorporate bondage and corporal punishment into the services she offers. Too many people make the mistake of assuming that the two are one and the same. Professional Dommes are not prostitutes. Any remuneration is for her Domination skills and expertise, not for sexual contact or sex acts. Sexual contact will not be a part of any session with any Professional Dominatrix worth her salt.

Learning the ropes – introducing bondage to the bedroom

Bondage in a sexual setting is the act of restraining a person or being restrained for psychological or sexual pleasure. The most recognisable and mainstream item used in a bedroom scenario is the infamous furry handcuffs, now a somewhat derided object in the mainstream, used as a joke on hen and stag weekends to represent kinky and immoral attitudes to sex.

Will Anal Sex Toys Make Me Gay? | Men’s Sex Health

By Cara Sutra: A man who enjoys using a butt plug. Does that notion conjures up any homosexual connotations for you? Then you have fallen prey to one of the most common and persistent sexuality myths. When it comes to men's sex health, a surprising number of guys are questioning, "will anal sex toys make me gay?"

BDSM & FemDom Advice: What being a Mistress Really Means

Don't make the mistake that many do: a Mistress is very different to a Dominatrix or a session Domme. Unlike ladies who Dominate or Top for a session, a Mistress owns her property over the long term and the power exchange is not necessarily limited to the dungeon environment.