Commissioned Articles

commissioned and personal writings from Cara SutraCommissioned Articles at Cara Sutra

Here you can find articles and blog posts which Cara Sutra has been commissioned to write here at the UK’s best sexuality magazine.

“If you think that all sex begins and ends with penis-in-vagina, you are wrong on so many levels. And I’m talking about everyone there, but for the purposes of this article: especially women who love women, whether bisexual or lesbian. There are plenty of creative ways to tantalise and stimulate without resorting to the heteronormative, phallo-centric ideals society often loves to *ahem* thrust upon us.”
– The best sex toys to use for amazing lesbian sex

“I’m here to put your fears to bed about some of the more unusual materials sex toys can be made from. It may surprise you to learn that not all vibrators and dildos are made from flexible materials such as jelly, silicone or PVC. Perhaps you’ve never seen any other type of sex toy than the ‘bendy’ sort. In reality, there’s a whole world of alternative materials to get to grips with, each with their own unique appeal and other advantages.”
– Busting popular myths about ceramic, metal and glass dildos

“The noises coming from the girls now could make you come just to hear it. It was making my cock surge and pulse listening to them enjoy each other so much. Letting my cock spring free of my boxers, I manoeuvred myself so I was behind the pair of them. I used Raven’s waist to steady me, my hands on her sensational curves, occasionally putting a hand down to guide me in. I needed to be inside my girl first.”
– Fulfilling our hotel threesome fantasy (commissioned erotica)

 

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Lessons in Lube: Your complete guide to sexual lubricants

Choosing the right lubricant for you and your partner can be an absolutely mind-boggling task. There is such a vast array of lubes to choose from, you could be stumped before you get started. Why are there so many different types? It’s just lube, right? Well, not quite.

Freedoms Shop Celebrates The Liberating Feeling Of Safe Sex

By Cara Sutra: Steamy. Sensual. Passionate. Hot. Hard. Fast. Many words may come to mind when you think of sex, but is ‘safe’ one of them? It should be. Safe sex has always been of great importance, but never more so in this time of sexual freedom, where we are able to connect with another person sexually without as much fear of society backlash or oppression.

Post-confession: Turning that outed fantasy into reality

Do you require any special furniture? There are many adult themed hotels as well as play spaces like dungeons available for short term hire. Find them through searching the internet or signing up to adult chat and kinky dating communities.

Does using sex toys mean your partner isn’t good enough?

Picture the scene: You get home at the end of the day, and not seeing your boyfriend downstairs, you head to the bedroom. You walk in, and... he's there. Making love to her.

Mistakes which make a mockery of your writing

I have a major problem with people who rely on spell-check to proof and edit their work for them. Spell-check will merely check if your words are all spelled correctly. That's ALL. It will not correct the wrong words in the wrong place, nor will it tell you if you have missed a word or two out of a sentence, rendering it incomprehensible.

BDSM & FemDom Advice: Dressed to Domme – The Shiny Layers of FemDom Fashion

Your heart is beating faster and faster. You feel hot but cold and clammy all at once and you're not really sure why. You can barely think to open your mouth to reply to whatever question he just asked; in any case you know whatever reply you give will be words falling over each other and stuttering their way out into the air, catching in your throat with inexplicable nerves.

Sex News: New Lovense Bluetooth & Internet Sex Toys

The future is now with these technological wonders, the new Lovense sex toys. Max is the penis stimulating sex toy, while Nora is the vagina & clit pleasuring rabbit vibrator.

Unlock the next stage of your relationship – through swinging

The social, cultural and media references to swinging often conjure up thoughts of a drab buffet to one side of a partying 70s lounge scene, a goldfish bowl filled with car keys acting as the centrepiece on top of the Pledge-polished sideboard. Forget slut shaming and housewife spankings over the hostess trolley, it's almost 2014...

BDSM & FemDom Advice: Toybox Tales – Fetish Gear Essentials

Each individual is different, both in vanilla life and in BDSM. Therefore, the scope of equipment which can be found is growing all the time in relation to the fetishes of Dominants and submissives. Toilet style thrones, Queening chairs, humbler devices, pony boy and pony girl saddles, trappings and carts, furry fetish play and costumes, sensory deprivation hoods and masks... the list continues as far as, and beyond where your imagination can reach. From the small and portable hog tie to the largest piece of bondage equipment and dungeon furniture, there are fetish tools to fit your deviant fancy.

Cara Sutra writes for Adult Toys UK: My Top Ten Bondage Essentials

"A mouth gag makes the one playing the role of the submissive owned party feel even more controlled and vulnerable, they also stop much of the noise that the person may emit during a spanking or ‘sexy punishment’ session as well as making the gagged person look even more appealing and corruptible for the one in position of Dominance and control."

BDSM & FemDom Advice: A guide to submission: switch, submissive or slave?

There are a lot of different terms bandied around both the fetish and mainstream circles, relating to the orientation of players in kink and BDSM. Slave, submissive, switch - as well as various pet names such as puppy or bitch - can leave you feeling confused as to exactly where you stand in the grand scale of things. The BDSM spectrum is very large (in fact I feel that vanilla or kinky, we are all on the same spectrum, not living synonymously) and the chances are you will find yourself drawn to one large label over another. My new article over at Erotica UK discusses why labels can be useful even if you're averse to labelling yourself normally, and what the difference is between the big three terms for submissive players in BDSM.

8 Top Tips for Spectacular Male Masturbation

There is nothing, repeat, nothing wrong with masturbation. It doesn't make your palms hairy, you won't go blind and your penis won't fall off. Regular masturbation is a healthy part of an adult male's sex life and there is nothing shameful about it whatsoever.