Here you can find articles and blog posts which Cara Sutra has been commissioned to write here at the UK’s best sexuality magazine.
“If you think that all sex begins and ends with penis-in-vagina, you are wrong on so many levels. And I’m talking about everyone there, but for the purposes of this article: especially women who love women, whether bisexual or lesbian. There are plenty of creative ways to tantalise and stimulate without resorting to the heteronormative, phallo-centric ideals society often loves to *ahem* thrust upon us.”
– The best sex toys to use for amazing lesbian sex
“I’m here to put your fears to bed about some of the more unusual materials sex toys can be made from. It may surprise you to learn that not all vibrators and dildos are made from flexible materials such as jelly, silicone or PVC. Perhaps you’ve never seen any other type of sex toy than the ‘bendy’ sort. In reality, there’s a whole world of alternative materials to get to grips with, each with their own unique appeal and other advantages.”
– Busting popular myths about ceramic, metal and glass dildos
“The noises coming from the girls now could make you come just to hear it. It was making my cock surge and pulse listening to them enjoy each other so much. Letting my cock spring free of my boxers, I manoeuvred myself so I was behind the pair of them. I used Raven’s waist to steady me, my hands on her sensational curves, occasionally putting a hand down to guide me in. I needed to be inside my girl first.”
– Fulfilling our hotel threesome fantasy (commissioned erotica)
I’m proud to introduce my first outing on the fabulous LELO blog: Don’t Judge a Sex Toy by its Price Tag.
As well as giving you a Jessie J earworm for the rest of the day, you’ll learn what it is about some sex toys that make them a lasting part of your go-to collection, other than simply a high price on the label.
Don’t pay for brand names, fancy packaging or marketing spiel – pay for a sex toy which you’ll actually use.
By Cara Sutra:
When you feel the urge for physical satisfaction, it’s easy to reach for your vibrator or Fleshlight and stimulate yourself to the quick climax your body needs. Sex toys don’t replace sex, though. People usually yearn for something more than self love, which is why skin to skin bonding starts on day one and carries on into the warmth and tenderness of hugs and cuddles.
She’s laid on the bed, the vivid assortment of penis shaped dildos and vibrators strewn over the covers as she finds her favourite and plunges it deep inside. She gasps as the realistic veins stimulate her inner areas and emits … Continued
Sex toys are not a replacement for a partner or pleasure, they are the seasoning on your sex life. A sprinkling of the right devices for you and your partner can spice up your sex life and masturbation immeasurably, leaving you fulfilled and confident in all walks of life.
Choosing the right lubricant for you and your partner can be an absolutely mind-boggling task. There is such a vast array of lubes to choose from, you could be stumped before you get started. Why are there so many different types? It’s just lube, right? Well, not quite.
By Cara Sutra:
Steamy. Sensual. Passionate. Hot. Hard. Fast. Many words may come to mind when you think of sex, but is ‘safe’ one of them? It should be. Safe sex has always been of great importance, but never more so in this time of sexual freedom, where we are able to connect with another person sexually without as much fear of society backlash or oppression.
Do you require any special furniture? There are many adult themed hotels as well as play spaces like dungeons available for short term hire. Find them through searching the internet or signing up to adult chat and kinky dating communities.
I have a major problem with people who rely on spell-check to proof and edit their work for them. Spell-check will merely check if your words are all spelled correctly. That’s ALL. It will not correct the wrong words in the wrong place, nor will it tell you if you have missed a word or two out of a sentence, rendering it incomprehensible.
Your heart is beating faster and faster. You feel hot but cold and clammy all at once and you’re not really sure why. You can barely think to open your mouth to reply to whatever question he just asked; in any case you know whatever reply you give will be words falling over each other and stuttering their way out into the air, catching in your throat with inexplicable nerves.
The social, cultural and media references to swinging often conjure up thoughts of a drab buffet to one side of a partying 70s lounge scene, a goldfish bowl filled with car keys acting as the centrepiece on top of the Pledge-polished sideboard. Forget slut shaming and housewife spankings over the hostess trolley, it’s almost 2014…
Each individual is different, both in vanilla life and in BDSM. Therefore, the scope of equipment which can be found is growing all the time in relation to the fetishes of Dominants and submissives. Toilet style thrones, Queening chairs, humbler devices, pony boy and pony girl saddles, trappings and carts, furry fetish play and costumes, sensory deprivation hoods and masks… the list continues as far as, and beyond where your imagination can reach. From the small and portable hog tie to the largest piece of bondage equipment and dungeon furniture, there are fetish tools to fit your deviant fancy.