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By Cara Sutra & Friends

Erotic Writing and ArticlesHere you can read informative & entertaining articles pertaining to all aspects of sexuality & adult interest.

As well as opinion pieces and sex advice articles written by Cara Sutra such as this popular piece on rape fantasy and rapeplay, you can enjoy articles written by the talented & experienced Cara Sutra columnists:

Cameryn Moore

“Folks tell me all the time: “I don’t know how to talk dirty.” Not, “I’d like to learn to do it better,” but, “I don’t know how to do it at all.” Or they say it about their partner: “They’re just so quiet. How do I get them to talk a little?” So this month, I want to look at starting from scratch with dirty talk.”
– Dirty Talk Tips With Quiet People And The People Who Love Them

Hella Rude

“Until recent years, prostate play was considered to be a purely homosexual or fetishistic act – a bit of bum fun came with a plethora of connotations that have been falling away as discussing sexuality becomes more en vogue. These days more men are encroaching on the forbidden pleasure zone and with valid reason; it’s a pretty good pathway to a superhuman orgasm.”
– How Do I Give My Boyfriend / Husband / Man a Prostate Massage?

Jon Pressick

“While we are surrounded by a plethora of smells, those aromas particular to sex and our desires for certain people are entirely unique in our noses. Think about perfume and perspiration, cologne and cum. Strike up a conversation in room full of people and you’ll likely be surprised by what people enjoy, handle and dislike the scent of, when it comes to sex.”
– A Rose By Any Other Name: Sensual Scents

Victoria Blisse

“Where is the spanking taking place? How easy will it be for the spankee to stay still? It’s these little details which will make your scene all the more realistic. If you want a long, session with the submissive in the same position you’re going to need to get them comfortable…”
– Punish Your Readers… With Sensational Spanking Erotica

Mel MacFarlane

“For those who haven’t heard of it before, pegging involves a heterosexual (or bisexual) man being anally penetrated by a female wearing a strap on dildo. Described as one of the most fulfilling and intimate experiences that a couple can engage in, pegging and harness play is a practice which continues to go from strength to strength.”
– Strap On Sex Tips: How A Woman Can Get Pleasure From Pegging

Zak Jane Keir

“Sucking off your submissive can be an amazing, delicious, mindblowing powertrip. Of course dominance doesn’t HAVE to contain any sexual, actual-genital-contact, intimate stuff at all: there’s no One True Way, but sometimes doing the unexpected and unusual in the context of a scene can boost it to a totally different level.”
Dominant Women Who Love Sucking Cock

 

Why London Is Becoming The Escorting Capital of the World

If you're looking for a night of sexy fun with an experienced lady, why not try one of the breathtaking London Escorts? London is becoming the escorting capital of the world, and for very good reason.  

Valentine’s Day Giveaway: Win A Relaxing Romance Bundle 

Time to get loved up and absolutely, tremendously spoilt. Valentine's Day is just around the corner - and to help you get into the spirit of the romantic season, here's an exciting Valentine's Day giveaway. 

Celebrate Valentine’s Day 2018 With New Fifty Shades Freed Sex Toys

It will soon be Valentine's Day, and you know what that means: bondage. Wait, what? Ok, maybe bondage and Valentine's Day aren't synonymous for everyone. However, with the release of a Fifty Shades of Grey film -and related sex toys- around Valentine's Day for the past couple of years, the two are becoming irrefutably and inexorably entwined. 

The Hotness Of Gay Sex

There’s something about man loving and gay sex which gets my knickers twitching. It doesn’t even have to be all-out gay porn; just a simple act of romantic affection between guys on a TV show can catch my clit’s interest. When it does come down to the action, though, man-on-man sex scenes are so fucking hot. And as it’s all rather gay, I’m not really sure why I (as a woman) would find it all that hot.  

The Wide & Diverse World of Virtual Reality Sex

Since its release earlier this year, virtual reality has taken the electronic world by storm.  Even if you haven’t been paying attention, there’s a good chance you’ve have heard the rumblings of this great new technology.  Virtual reality is poised for big things, with lots of viable uses already putting the technology to work.

Happy New Year Of Sexploration Giveaway! Win a £175+ Sexy Prize Bundle

Hopefully you're feeling rejuvenated after the holidays and ready to start a fresh new year - 2018. Set aside those well-intentioned – but, let's face it, quite boring – New Year's Resolutions for the moment, and think about hitting up some sexy goals. Welcome to the Happy New Year of Sexploration giveaway!

Happy New Year! Lessons Learned 2017 & My Goals For 2018

...instead of a magnificent round-up post, I've decided to note down a few of the lessons I learned during 2017 – ones which made a particular impression on me – and my main goals for 2018. Which are definitely (and defiantly) not resolutions, because who seriously sticks to those anyway? 

Merry Christmas! Enjoy My Most Popular Blog Posts 2017

Wishing a Very Merry Christmas to all my readers! I hope you're all enjoying a fantastic Christmas Day with your friends/family/loved ones, but just in case you wanted a sneaky distraction when Aunty Mabel starts on about her bunions – here it is. A round up of my most popular blog posts 2017.

Can You Make Your Own Sex Toys At Home?

When the budget's stretched thin it's sensible to cut costs by cutting out luxuries. And I'd wager that most people view sex toys as a luxury. With the popularity of crafting, plus incentives to be eco-friendly wherever possible, it could be tempting to try and make your own sex toys at home.

Why I Hate Vibrating Cock Rings (& What We Use Instead)

If you're a regular sex toy shopper, you'll have noticed vibrating cock rings amongst the offerings for men and couples. Vibrating cock rings are designed to offer penis-owners the pleasure of vibration, as well as the tantalising restriction which encourages a firmer, longer lasting erection.

The Top 10 Sex Mistakes People Are Still Making

Sex mistakes aren't limited to calling out an ex's name during orgasm or answering your phone mid-thrust. Let's take a look at the top 10 sex mistakes that thousands of lovers around the globe are still making. Recognise any of these?

8 Reasons Why I Love Menstrual Cups

Menstrual cups tend to get two contrasting reactions from the women I've spoken with. There's the vehement & judgemental: "ewww, no I just couldn't... anyway, aren't they a hippy thing?" Or the seasoned menstrual cup user: "YES! Every woman should use them, they're awesome".