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By Cara Sutra & Friends

Erotic Writing and ArticlesHere you can read informative & entertaining articles pertaining to all aspects of sexuality & adult interest.

As well as opinion pieces and sex advice articles written by Cara Sutra such as this popular piece on rape fantasy and rapeplay, you can enjoy articles written by the talented & experienced Cara Sutra columnists:

Cameryn Moore

“Folks tell me all the time: “I don’t know how to talk dirty.” Not, “I’d like to learn to do it better,” but, “I don’t know how to do it at all.” Or they say it about their partner: “They’re just so quiet. How do I get them to talk a little?” So this month, I want to look at starting from scratch with dirty talk.”
– Dirty Talk Tips With Quiet People And The People Who Love Them

Hella Rude

“Until recent years, prostate play was considered to be a purely homosexual or fetishistic act – a bit of bum fun came with a plethora of connotations that have been falling away as discussing sexuality becomes more en vogue. These days more men are encroaching on the forbidden pleasure zone and with valid reason; it’s a pretty good pathway to a superhuman orgasm.”
– How Do I Give My Boyfriend / Husband / Man a Prostate Massage?

Jon Pressick

“While we are surrounded by a plethora of smells, those aromas particular to sex and our desires for certain people are entirely unique in our noses. Think about perfume and perspiration, cologne and cum. Strike up a conversation in room full of people and you’ll likely be surprised by what people enjoy, handle and dislike the scent of, when it comes to sex.”
– A Rose By Any Other Name: Sensual Scents

Victoria Blisse

“Where is the spanking taking place? How easy will it be for the spankee to stay still? It’s these little details which will make your scene all the more realistic. If you want a long, session with the submissive in the same position you’re going to need to get them comfortable…”
– Punish Your Readers… With Sensational Spanking Erotica

Mel MacFarlane

“For those who haven’t heard of it before, pegging involves a heterosexual (or bisexual) man being anally penetrated by a female wearing a strap on dildo. Described as one of the most fulfilling and intimate experiences that a couple can engage in, pegging and harness play is a practice which continues to go from strength to strength.”
– Strap On Sex Tips: How A Woman Can Get Pleasure From Pegging

Zak Jane Keir

“Sucking off your submissive can be an amazing, delicious, mindblowing powertrip. Of course dominance doesn’t HAVE to contain any sexual, actual-genital-contact, intimate stuff at all: there’s no One True Way, but sometimes doing the unexpected and unusual in the context of a scene can boost it to a totally different level.”
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The 10 Weirdest Kinds Of Porn That People Search For

By Smut6:
You can expect lots of people to make a scrunchy “eww” face once they discover that someone has a certain fetish – say for instance, spanking or licking feet. Those, however, pale in comparison to some of the really strange stuff that people Google to wank over. We scoured the internet for ten of the weirdest kinds of porn out there, and came up with this list.

2017 Is The Year I Say No (A Surprisingly Positive Post)

By Cara Sutra:
No is a negative word by definition. That’s not to say no can’t ever be positive, however*. Saying no to some things can mean saying yes to others, meaning more control over your life, a more manageable schedule and less stress. That’s my main goal this year, my new year’s resolution if you like. 2017 is the year I say NO.

Goodbye 2016! It’s Been A Rollercoaster

By Cara Sutra:
What a year 2016 has been. Personally, it’s been an absolute rollercoaster of emotions, running the gamut from the crushing depths of anxiety to dizzying relief, contentment and happiness. And that’s just in our little family. I know plenty of people who have had an extra challenging 2016 – some have had a truly terrible year – and then there’s the shocking and at times, depressing world events. Ugh, politics. Ugh, celebrity deaths. Ugh, 2016. Goodbye, and thanks for all the tears.

Festive Fiction: The Best Christmas Gift Of All

By Mel MacFarlane:
I knelt on the floor giggling and listened intently to the soft rustle of paper as he moved swiftly around the room. His normally heavy footsteps surprisingly light as he navigated his way around me, hoping that I wouldn’t hear. Over my eyes the blindfold pressed firmly against my skin, allowing only a small chink of light to highlight his large black boots.

How To Invite Her Sex-Creature On A Date

By Galen Fous:
Are you aware that wild sex-creatures of every stripe may secretly romp and frolic within your partner’s sexual psyche while they have sex with you. What began as pleasantly passionate love-making, may have suddenly felt like you were being ravaged and devoured by a powerful beast. You might have had the thought – “Wow, who was that!” Of course, your own secret sex-creature may have been as ecstatically engaged as your partners!

How To Be Romantic Without Spending Any Money

By Cara Sutra:
It’s so easy to be swept along into the great commercialisation of love and romance. To cave under the weight of the ads and believe that romance is measured in expensive bouquets, hotel stays, sparkling jewellery and weekends abroad. Don’t me wrong – I love all that stuff. But it’s definitely not required in order for me to know that my partner loves me. Whatever your bank balance, there are ways to be incredibly romantic without spending any money. Or at least, very little… using items you probably already have around your home.

8 Ways To Sex Up Your Christmas

By Cara Sutra:
Christmas isn’t intrinsically sexy. The focus is on the home: gathering relatives and friends for a family closeness that often only happens this time of year. Traditional scenes of baking biscuits, sipping chocolate topped with cream and marshmallows and enjoying their excited little faces all aglow doesn’t exactly scream wanton and passionate romps with your partner. Let’s not miss an opportunity for adult mischief, though. I’ve got a few ideas to help make Christmas sexy for couples and get your name so indelibly on Santa’s naughty list he’ll only visit to deliver an over the knee spanking.

Why Is Everyone So Obsessed With Spanking & Bondage?

By Cara Sutra:
I absolutely LOVE getting spanked. Guess what? I LOVE being tied up too. You’ve probably heard loads about kinky sex, spanking and bondage in the last few years, and you might even be a bit fed up of everyone going on about them. Why is the world totally obsessed with spanking & bondage? And what about you? Would you ever indulge in these so-called sexy pleasures yourself?

A Rant About Rants: Venting On Social Media

By Cara Sutra:
I believe we all know people that we genuinely like – but wow, their social media updates really push our buttons. I know I do. And if you’re thinking it’s you, it’s probably not you. I’m talking about people who seem to spend the majority of their time venting on social media. It doesn’t seem to matter if it’s Twitter, Facebook or any other social media (does anyone even bother putting text updates on any other social media platform?) – their feed is just vent after wail after whinge after whine.