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By Cara Sutra & Friends

Erotic Writing and ArticlesHere you can read informative & entertaining articles pertaining to all aspects of sexuality & adult interest.

As well as opinion pieces and sex advice articles written by Cara Sutra such as this popular piece on rape fantasy and rapeplay, you can enjoy articles written by the talented & experienced Cara Sutra columnists:

Cameryn Moore

“Folks tell me all the time: “I don’t know how to talk dirty.” Not, “I’d like to learn to do it better,” but, “I don’t know how to do it at all.” Or they say it about their partner: “They’re just so quiet. How do I get them to talk a little?” So this month, I want to look at starting from scratch with dirty talk.”
– Dirty Talk Tips With Quiet People And The People Who Love Them

Hella Rude

“Until recent years, prostate play was considered to be a purely homosexual or fetishistic act – a bit of bum fun came with a plethora of connotations that have been falling away as discussing sexuality becomes more en vogue. These days more men are encroaching on the forbidden pleasure zone and with valid reason; it’s a pretty good pathway to a superhuman orgasm.”
– How Do I Give My Boyfriend / Husband / Man a Prostate Massage?

Jon Pressick

“While we are surrounded by a plethora of smells, those aromas particular to sex and our desires for certain people are entirely unique in our noses. Think about perfume and perspiration, cologne and cum. Strike up a conversation in room full of people and you’ll likely be surprised by what people enjoy, handle and dislike the scent of, when it comes to sex.”
– A Rose By Any Other Name: Sensual Scents

Victoria Blisse

“Where is the spanking taking place? How easy will it be for the spankee to stay still? It’s these little details which will make your scene all the more realistic. If you want a long, session with the submissive in the same position you’re going to need to get them comfortable…”
– Punish Your Readers… With Sensational Spanking Erotica

Mel MacFarlane

“For those who haven’t heard of it before, pegging involves a heterosexual (or bisexual) man being anally penetrated by a female wearing a strap on dildo. Described as one of the most fulfilling and intimate experiences that a couple can engage in, pegging and harness play is a practice which continues to go from strength to strength.”
– Strap On Sex Tips: How A Woman Can Get Pleasure From Pegging

Zak Jane Keir

“Sucking off your submissive can be an amazing, delicious, mindblowing powertrip. Of course dominance doesn’t HAVE to contain any sexual, actual-genital-contact, intimate stuff at all: there’s no One True Way, but sometimes doing the unexpected and unusual in the context of a scene can boost it to a totally different level.”
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My 5 Favourite Kinks – And Why I Find Them So Sexy

If I had to distil my love of everything (well, most things) kinky into a 'Top 5' compilation... what would make the list? Today I'm going to share with you my 5 favourite kinks, then explain why I find them so sexy.

Horny In A Heatwave? 7 Refreshing Ideas For Cool Summer Sex

Hot weather and horniness can be a troublesome mix. Sure, you could go fap it out in the shower, but what about when you want to get up close and personal with your partner? There's nothing wrong with hot, sticky, sweaty sex, but some people (like myself) might find it a little too uncomfortable to thoroughly enjoy. When the temperature is soaring in the bedroom - in all the wrong ways – how can you keep your cool and the intimate romance? Here's a few of my refreshing ideas for cool summer sex.

FemDom: The BDSM Scene Outsider?

FemDom is the Marmite of the BDSM world. Female Domination usually elicits a response firmly on one end of the scale or the other: yes please! or ...um, no thanks. While female submission has been warmly embraced by the masses, with sexualised imagery of restrained women now prevalent even in mainstream music and film media, FemDom is still viewed as extremely niche.  

Lovehoney Commemorative Royal Wedding Love Rings

Prince Harry – who is officially known as Prince Henry of Wales – is set to marry Rachel Meghan Markle on 19th May 2018. And, as has become traditional (we're big on tradition here in the UK), Lovehoney has created some sex toys to mark the occasion in their own special way. Introducing the Lovehoney Commemorative Royal Wedding Love Rings.

We-Vibe Anniversary Collection Celebrates 10 Years Of We-Vibe Sex Toys 

High-tech adult product manufacturer We-Vibe are celebrating 10 years of their cutting-edge, fast evolving and multi award-winning sex toys. The We-Vibe Anniversary Collection is a beautiful set comprising of two of the most popular sex toys from their range, offered in a glamorous new colour and housed in an ingenious storage case which doubles as a charging dock.

Futuristic Sex Tech: Is Using Sex Robots Ethical?

Whenever I hear about sex robots, I immediately conjure an image of the intensely charming Jude Law from the compelling and philosophical Spielberg movie, A.I. Artificial Intelligence. Beyond that likeable yet disturbing character, the phrase sex robot is an oxymoron to me. Sex is warm, wet, slippery and can be deeply emotional... whereas 'robotics' makes me think of computers; inanimate lumps of rigid cold metal and confusing tangles of wires.  

10 Great Tips To Get Older Women To Respond To Your Online Dating Messages

Learning how to write messages to older women takes time. We can’t all expect to land on the perfect formula straight away -- nor should we assume there is one. There’s no one-size-fits-all approach to making a great first impression. And every guy needs to tailor what he says to his own personal style.

Tips To Boost Productivity When Working From Home

Being able to work from home seems like a dream come true for many. While working from home definitely has plentiful perks, it's also incredibly easy to form bad habits which mean your productivity ambles along somewhere just above zero. Being obligated to work in your own home environment can soon become a resented daily chore rather than providing the joyful freedom which appealed to you at the beginning. Sadly, I speak from experience.

Touch And Please Satisfy All Your Sex Toy Shopping Desires

When it comes to growing your sex toy collection, it can be a challenge to know exactly where to shop. Finding a reliable and trustworthy online sex shop in the midst of so many can be confusing and quite intimidating. Today I'd like to introduce you to a relatively new sex toy shopping website, Touch and Please.

Scared to Buy Your First Sex Toy? Here’s What to Do

Sex toys used to be a bit frowned on, kept hidden under stuff in the bottom drawer or in a box under the bed.  But now, people are much more open about their use and their benefits. They can help you enjoy a range of sensations and have fun.  But if you are looking to buy your first sex toy, it can still be intimidating, even when you use a top quality website like Pleasure Delights.

Best Small Butt Plugs For Tiny Bums

I've written plenty of beginner's guides to anal toys and butt plugs in the past, and you can find plenty of sex toy advice throughout the Cara Sutra sex blog. Today, however, I wanted to present what I feel are the true top picks when it comes to easily insertable (yet still body safe) small butt plugs for tiny bums.

London, Where Hiring An Escort Is Cheaper Than A Tinder Date!

Agreeing that someone's sexy is one thing, but what about your and their real intentions? Things can quickly turn from hot to not if one of you wants no-strings sex while the other harbours long term relationship dreams.