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Need Sex Advice? Ask Cara!

Ask CaraWant to know how to reignite the lust in your sex life? Bewildered by the array of sex toys and lubes out there and just not sure which is right? I’ll answer these questions and lots more in my advice column relating to sex toys, sex life and relationships. Ask Cara!

“Over time[…], what was once a pleasurable and satisfying sex life can often transform into a dull, monotonous and predictable routine which lacks excitement and the spark of something new. How can you make sure that your relationship doesn’t fall into this trap? Here are my top 20 ideas to help rekindle the passion in your long term relationship…”
– How to rekindle the passion in a long term relationship

“Buying your first sex toy, whether alone or as part of a couple, is a very exciting experience. You’re about to embark on a new adventure in your sexual life and the chance to try something new is deliciously alluring. The chance to ignite your orgasms by a new masturbation method or discover higher levels of satisfaction with a lover comes rarely in our adult lives. Embrace this thrilling opportunity and get ready for more fulfilling sexual pleasure.”
– A guide to buying your first sex toy – regardless of sexuality, gender or relationship status

“It’s all very well knowing how to have sex, but what about the time leading up to the main event? Many people suffer from performance anxiety, which can start hours or even days before their sexual liaison. In this article I examine 6 steps which may help to soothe those sexual activity fears and make sure you’re as prepared as possible for the best sex you’ll ever have.”
– Sex basics: 6 steps to help you prepare for the best sex of your life

 

 

Why London Is Becoming The Escorting Capital of the World

If you're looking for a night of sexy fun with an experienced lady, why not try one of the breathtaking London Escorts? London is becoming the escorting capital of the world, and for very good reason.  

Celebrate Valentine’s Day 2018 With New Fifty Shades Freed Sex Toys

It will soon be Valentine's Day, and you know what that means: bondage. Wait, what? Ok, maybe bondage and Valentine's Day aren't synonymous for everyone. However, with the release of a Fifty Shades of Grey film -and related sex toys- around Valentine's Day for the past couple of years, the two are becoming irrefutably and inexorably entwined. 

The Wide & Diverse World of Virtual Reality Sex

Since its release earlier this year, virtual reality has taken the electronic world by storm.  Even if you haven’t been paying attention, there’s a good chance you’ve have heard the rumblings of this great new technology.  Virtual reality is poised for big things, with lots of viable uses already putting the technology to work.

Merry Christmas! Enjoy My Most Popular Blog Posts 2017

Wishing a Very Merry Christmas to all my readers! I hope you're all enjoying a fantastic Christmas Day with your friends/family/loved ones, but just in case you wanted a sneaky distraction when Aunty Mabel starts on about her bunions – here it is. A round up of my most popular blog posts 2017.

Can You Make Your Own Sex Toys At Home?

When the budget's stretched thin it's sensible to cut costs by cutting out luxuries. And I'd wager that most people view sex toys as a luxury. With the popularity of crafting, plus incentives to be eco-friendly wherever possible, it could be tempting to try and make your own sex toys at home.

Why I Hate Vibrating Cock Rings (& What We Use Instead)

If you're a regular sex toy shopper, you'll have noticed vibrating cock rings amongst the offerings for men and couples. Vibrating cock rings are designed to offer penis-owners the pleasure of vibration, as well as the tantalising restriction which encourages a firmer, longer lasting erection.

The Top 10 Sex Mistakes People Are Still Making

Sex mistakes aren't limited to calling out an ex's name during orgasm or answering your phone mid-thrust. Let's take a look at the top 10 sex mistakes that thousands of lovers around the globe are still making. Recognise any of these?

8 Reasons Why I Love Menstrual Cups

Menstrual cups tend to get two contrasting reactions from the women I've spoken with. There's the vehement & judgemental: "ewww, no I just couldn't... anyway, aren't they a hippy thing?" Or the seasoned menstrual cup user: "YES! Every woman should use them, they're awesome".

Give Pleasure… To Yourself! Become A Give Lube #Selfie Addict

Having followed and been a fan of Give Pleasure Products from the start of their journey into the global lube market, I was very excited to see some new additions to the range recently. Two thicker formulations have been created, the Give Lube #Selfie Pleasure Gel & the Give Lube #Selfie Masturbation Cream.  

Been Friendzoned? Why You Need To Ditch The Friendzone Myth

Been Friendzoned? Why You Need To Ditch The Friendzone Myth Heard of the friendzone? Perhaps you've been friendzoned, or friendzoned someone else. I've most heard the term amongst...

Bush Fucker Trials: Strange Aphrodisiacs From Around The World

It's that time of year again when a host of celebrities (or non celebs, depending on your tastes) enter the Jungle and put a plethora of strange and unusual foodstuffs in their mouths. The celebrity line up has now been released and I'm A Celebrity Get Me Out Of Here returns to our screens on 19th November 2017.

How To Give Him An Amazing Handjob

Hands are seriously fantastic. Not only are they... well, handy for carrying out our everyday tasks, they can also give exquisite sexual pleasure. We can cradle a lover's face as we kiss them, undress each other as fast or slowly as we wish, and stimulate external and internal body parts with skilful precision. In this article I'm going to reveal how to give him an amazing handjob.