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Cara Sutra’s Blog

Welcome to Cara Sutra’s Blog, where you can enjoy erotic writing, sexuality chat, sex and relationship advice, sex toy reviews and a whole lot more. 

Cara Sutra's Blog

There are writer features in the Sex Blogger and Erotic Author spotlight series, guest vibrator and bedroom product reviews with the Pleasure Panel at the Cara Sutra forum, Stampy Pants Rants by Cara Sutra and 100% original erotica written for you to perv in public or private…

“I couldn’t disguise the sexual hunger I felt as I admired her gorgeous breasts. Perfect shape, size… and her small pink nipples already hard and puckered. I lowered my head as she raised hers and took one of her nipples between finger and thumb, rolling it gently between them, as my tongue swirled over the bumpy areola of the other. The flat of my tongue first, then the tip flicking quickly for maximum sensation. Then swapping sides and rolling her now wet nipple between my fingers as I sucked and lapped at the other. The moans she was emitting above me were spurring me to continue…”
– Read more in Girl Date: The First Fuck Is The Sweetest

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My Mistress Cara Red Leather Mord-Sith Cosplay Outfit

A mord-sith is a member of a warrior group in the Sword Of Truth series. They're all women, and are trained to become mord-sith from when they're young girls. They are captured from their family in order to go through brutal training to attain the title and role of mord-sith.

Happy Birthday To Me: Fulfilling My New Year’s Resolution

2018 was the year I made a choice, and accepted a mission. Or rather, it is the year... we're only half way through. For once, I made a Serious New Year's Resolution in January, one which held a lot of personal meaning, and I've actually seen it through. As the new year rang in, I made the choice, and made the resolution which was to be a long-overdue birthday gift to myself.  

Relationships And The Myth Of Unconditional Love

Recently I declined the offer of a guest article, not for the usual reasons that the writing quality wasn't great, or that it was simply meaningless, sales-motivated filler. The guest piece would have been entitled "Unconditional Love: A Key Ingredient To A Happy Relationship" - and I'm afraid I simply don't agree with that sentiment at all. In fact, I don't believe that unconditional love has a part in any romantic relationship. 

Birthday Month Bonanza Sex Toys Giveaway! Win a £100+ Sex Toy Bundle

July is my absolute most favourite month of the year (with December a close second). Not only is it full of sunshiney, summery promise, it's also my partner and I's birthday month! This year I wanted to have a little celebration here on the blog as well, and what better way than with an enormous sex toy giveaway. So, without further ado, let me present my Big Birthday Month Bonanza Sex Toys Giveaway!

Is Flirting Cheating Or Harmless Fun?

Flirting is a common practice amongst adults of any gender, and it's not limited to those not in a relationship either. The attraction of flirting is that it's a way to gain the attention and approval from those you flirt with, and I don't believe it's always sexually motivated. Flirting can be a brilliant ego boost for both the flirter and the flirtee.  

Our Favourite Sex Positions – And Why We Love Them

Are there some sex positions you find yourself 'coming' back to time after time? My partner and I definitely have our favourite sex positions, and in the past I’ve worried that we might be getting stuck in a rut. A rut that, admittedly, feels so good. But then when I went through the sex positions we enjoy on a regular basis, it turns out we enjoy more variety than I’d feared.

Bound To Serve… As A Sex Slave

After several months' training, both mental and physical, her slave was able to handle one of her ferocious whippings simply through tears, gritted teeth and with only a few sweary slip-ups. He'd learnt that lesson fast, she thought, her smile widening even further. An extra 5 minutes lashing for every curse he spat in her direction soon had him holding his tongue.

Why Do We Fetishize Strap-On Sex? Here’s The Top 10 Reasons

The fact that many people do fetishize strap-on sex, and insist that for them, it's a kinky act, isn't wrong or offensive to me. Pointing out the many reasons why this may be the case, what may have contributed to this conclusion that strap-on sex is necessarily kinky, doesn't mean I disagree that it is. For submissive men who love the idea or reality of strap-on sex, the truth is that it is kinky – and therein lies much of the enjoyment.

Bundled Into The Gang Bang Van

Once again, I gave silent thanks for the almost total darkness which covered my flush of humiliation. The sensation of my own cursed wetness smearing and being pulled tightly over my clit and cunt lips, then between my arse cheeks, was almost enough to make me beg for a rough hard fucking. I didn't even care which hole any more. Cunt, arse, either. Both.  

Enjoying Sex Furniture When You Don’t Have A Sex Dungeon

Visiting a venue with a range of sex furniture to experiment on and enjoy is something that most of us rarely get the opportunity to experience. Although sex furniture is becoming more affordable for people to consider buying and enjoying at home, there’s still one important issue to consider before you splash the cash. The big issue of… space.

My 5 Favourite Kinks – And Why I Find Them So Sexy

If I had to distil my love of everything (well, most things) kinky into a 'Top 5' compilation... what would make the list? Today I'm going to share with you my 5 favourite kinks, then explain why I find them so sexy.

Horny In A Heatwave? 7 Refreshing Ideas For Cool Summer Sex

Hot weather and horniness can be a troublesome mix. Sure, you could go fap it out in the shower, but what about when you want to get up close and personal with your partner? There's nothing wrong with hot, sticky, sweaty sex, but some people (like myself) might find it a little too uncomfortable to thoroughly enjoy. When the temperature is soaring in the bedroom - in all the wrong ways – how can you keep your cool and the intimate romance? Here's a few of my refreshing ideas for cool summer sex.