Cara Sutra

I love to use my ROMP plug along with a clit vibe like a bullet vibrator, and even with a vaginally penetrative toy like a classic vibrator or dildo, if I’m feeling particularly greedy. Usually, I just add a little bullet vibration to the clit though. The orgasm comes FAST and STRONG.

Absolutely mind-blowing sensations. I didn't think I'd be able to enjoy a similar experience to a full-size fucking machine like the HiSmith or Gigolo in a hand-held, portable dildo toy - but there I was, getting sensationally fucked by this extra-large dildo with powerful motor mechanism.

He seemed to be part companion, being allowed to curl up at her feet when she worked at her desk with her laptop, and part amusing plaything, when she’d temporarily remove his chastity cage and have him hump a special plush dog toy she’d purchased, or even, on special occasions, her leg. She’d laugh until she nearly cried, stopping him as his cock started to leak, then she’d stuff him back inside his cock cage to suffer.

I have talked at length about how difficult it was to be believed by my doctor last year, the struggle to get HRT and how upsetting, restrictive and disruptive the symptoms are, in my perimenopause blog post. As part of my ongoing research, I purchased the book I’m reviewing here today: The New Hot by Meg Matthews – Taking on the Menopause With Attitude and Style.

Have you ever heard of the Folded Deckchair sex position? I was surprised to find out that one of my husband and I’s favourite sex positions had a name. To be honest, it shouldn’t have surprised me that much as the Internet is full of sexual position listicles with such titles as "69 Sex Positions You Never Knew Existed!" and "100 New Sex Positions You Need To Try Right NOW!".

If you haven’t heard of the Rose sex toy, then where have you been? This objet d’orgasme has been advertised on television regularly here in the UK, and despite already owning an unreasonable amount of sex toys I found myself desperate to try one out.

The Lovehoney Dare Discreet Necklace Vibrator is a slender bullet vibe which can be worn round the neck on a dainty chain, either underneath your clothing, or on public view to unsuspecting friends and passers-by. Would you dare to wear?

If I dare use this sex toy while standing up, I need to make sure I have something sturdy to hold on to right afterwards, as my legs turn entirely to jelly as I’m gasping out such poetic, articulate utterances such as “fucking hell”, “fuck” and “wow”.

In a long-term relationship, it’s easy to fall into the trap of comfortable but ultimately monotonous sex with each other. That’s why I wanted to share my top tips for spring cleaning your sex life. While everything else is getting a spring clean, don’t neglect your personal and shared sexual pleasure!

After discovering that one of my favourite sex toys, the Loving Joy Power Bullet, is out of stock, I was curious about whether a similar looking toy from the Loving Joy aisles would be just as good. I like to be able to recommend toys which I have tried and enjoyed myself, so I rather cheekily asked for this Loving Joy 10 Function Rechargeable Bullet Vibrator to test and review, and the team very kindly sent one to me. Thanks folks!

Lovehoney recently sent me some of their new sex toys to test and review here at the Cara Sutra sex blog, and I’m starting with one of my favourite types of adult products: a bullet vibe! The Lovehoney Mon Ami Silicone Bullet Massager is a silicone-covered, rechargeable, waterproof, multi-function bullet vibrator from the new Mon Ami sex toy collection.

How many sex toys have you got? Where do you store them? Do you just have a couple of vibrators in the bedside drawer, or masses of dildos shoved under the bed? No matter if your orgasm kit is big or small, setting time aside to spring clean your sex toy collection is a great idea.

It can be easy to 'stick your head in the sand' when it comes to those 3-yearly cervical smear tests. I know, because I’ve been there and done it myself. The reminder letter arrives... I open it, groan, and shove it into a drawer and try to forget about it. Eventually I force myself to put my big girl pants on and march myself down to the doctor’s surgery, before taking them off again for the nurse.

There’s a new term in town for when a sex toy is so gorgeously girthy that it blissfully bulldozes your orgasmic orifices. I’ve been thoroughly bull-dildoed by the huge and horny Twisted Beast Bael, a wickedly monstrous pleasure cock that cows you into submission with zero red flags.

I haven't 'reached' perimenopause so much as it's hunted me down and attacked me. That’s how it feels, anyway. At some point over the last year my body decided that it was time to enter this mysterious phase, and I’ve been suffering various symptoms ever since.

What is International Women’s Day all about? Is it really still needed? In my IWD info hub I’m going to explain how this important day of commemoration and activism started, why it’s important & why you should care, and how you can do your part to mark this day and directly support vulnerable and under-privileged women and girls.

This is the small selection of sex toys that I just love so much that they’ve made it to permanent residence in my bedside drawer, rather than being rated too mediocre or for some other reason relegated to being put back in the box and into storage in the loft or garage. Today I’d like to share details of my favourite sex toys right now: what exactly is in my current bedside drawer handy grab collection?

I really love manhandling my Mr Limpy; it's great stress relief via a bit of harmless CBT (cock and ball torture). Maybe a Domme thing. My slave loved the above photos and the video below, so I thought I'd share them here in case anyone out there shares our kinky interests... 😈

Are you curious about how it feels to be locked in a chastity cage but you’re too scared or unable to slide the lock home on a device of your own? Perhaps you are locked, teased, but denied in a locked chastity device and want to hear others’ similar experiences for companionship or further torment? These diary entries from my locked-up chastity slave are for you.

“I wasn’t expecting one quite so small!” Not the first time I’ve exclaimed that, but it's not usually when opening a new review product. The Lock The Cock Flat Gatling Chastity Cage is totally delicious but a real challenge.