Valentine’s Day Sexy Gift Guide 2019

Revealing my top choices in this year’s Valentine’s Day Sexy Gift Guide

I’m sure the years are going by faster than they used to. It feels as though Christmas was only last week, and now Valentine’s Day is almost here. Don’t panic –there’s still a little time to choose the perfect romantic gift for your partner. Sex toys can be romantic, right? Maybe you’d like to spoil the object of your affection with one of the latest and greatest vibrators. Or perhaps you’ll take a more traditionally romantic route, choosing some gorgeous lingerie to boost their mood, confidence and libido. Or you might be feeling a little adventurous – deciding that this is the year you’ll delve into the tantalising world of bondage.

Read on to discover my top choices in all of the above – in my Valentine’s Day Sexy Gift Guide 2019.

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Sex Toys

You might not instantly associate sex toys with romance, but they provide an undeniable element of fun and excitement -both in the bedroom and within the relationship as a whole. Sex toys are fantastic sexual accessories, as they’re made to stimulate anatomy -they’re not gender specific. Plus, you can enjoy them whether you’re with a partner or flying solo.

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Fifty Shades of Grey Sex Toys

Valentine's Day Sexy Gift Guide 2019 by Cara Sutra - sex toys bondage gear and lingeriePrevious Valentine’s Days saw a shift in focus in the sex toy industry, from the usual suspects of rabbit vibrators, heart shaped clitoral massagers and pussy-style penis sleeves, to including bondage sex toys in the mix. This is largely due to the Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy, and consequential movies, which had a big impact on how the general public viewed bondage and kink.

Subsequently, the official Fifty Shades of Grey sex toys (available here) were –and still are– incredibly popular, both as a treat to oneself or gifting one of the gift sets to someone special.

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Bondage Kits & Underbed Restraints

In 2019, bondage sex toys are simply one of the many options available for gifting your loved one this Valentine’s Day. If Fifty Shades of Grey isn’t your kinky flavour of choice, there are other, high-quality bondage sets to choose from. I particularly love the Underbed Restraint Kits, as you can just tuck the straps under the mattress between use –no extra space in the house required, unlike other dungeon equipment and bondage furniture.

Straps which are handily placed beneath the mattress can feel less intimidating to newbies and those who prefer a very playful element to their kink, too. You’re in bed together, having fun, with the option of bondage literally right there at your fingertips. No pressure if you don’t want, but at the same time, no hassle if you do.

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Valentine's Day Sexy Gift Guide 2019 by Cara Sutra - sex toys bondage gear and lingerie

Vibrating Knickers

Clitoral vibrators remain extremely popular; they’re my personal favourite type of vibe. I’ve often waxed lyrical about the powerful Doxy Wand Vibrators, but if you’re simply looking for a playful tease you can enjoy whether in the bedroom or around the house, you’ll love this. The Desire Luxury Remote Control Vibrating Knicker Vibrator doesn’t just look divine, it houses a saucy secret. A thrillingly stimulating vibrator which is conveniently located against your clit, with a wireless remote so you (or your lucky partner) can remain in control. In control of the functions, I mean – your squeals are another matter! Find it in the Butterfly Vibrators & Vibrating Knickers area at Lovehoney, along with many other styles.

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Valentine's Day Sexy Gift Guide 2019 by Cara Sutra - sex toys bondage gear and lingerie

Remote Control Love Eggs

For those who love to combine orgasmic sensuality with the latest, cutting-edge technology, Lovense have developed a wonder just for you. The Lovense Lush App Controlled Love Egg is fairly self-explanatory; with a few tasty extras. Not only is this a brilliant vibrating sex toy to use by yourself, you can hand over control to a partner to ramp up the excitement.

The icing on the cake? Your partner doesn’t even need to be in the same room with you – or even country! Yes, the Lovense Lush can bring even long-distance lovers together this Valentine’s Day. Enjoy a steamy sex session no matter where you’re both at, with the cleverly designed app.

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Valentine's Day Sexy Gift Guide 2019 by Cara Sutra - sex toys bondage gear and lingerie

Air Flow Stimulation Sex Toys

Speaking of cutting-edge technology, air flow stimulation sex toys have exploded upon to the sex toy scene in the last couple of years. Their popularity is soaring, and for good reason. These sex toys create what may feel like a vacuum, suction pressure around the clitoris; it’s actually pulsating air flow which stimulates the sensitive nerve endings in the clit without touching it directly.

Many women, myself included, find this an extremely effective route to a very powerful orgasm. The latest incarnation, the Womanizer Premium Rechargeable Smart Silence Clitoral Stimulator, offers 12 intensity levels, is fully waterproof, and features the brand-new Smart Silence function –plus many other benefits besides.

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Valentine's Day Sexy Gift Guide 2019 by Cara Sutra - sex toys bondage gear and lingerie

Sex Toy Kits

For a guaranteed good time (and a lasting good impression, if gifted), it has to be the amazing WeVibe Sync & Tango Anniversary Kit. It may cost just shy of £200, but we’re talking about a real investment in pleasure here.

The We-Vibe Sync is a shapeable C-shaped vibrator which enhances PiV couples’s sex, while the We-Vibe Tango is one of the world’s best-selling bullet vibrators (another bullet vibe favourite of mine is the Loving Joy Power Bullet Vibrator, which everyone needs to own, in my opinion. Buy yours here). The We-Vibe Tango is gorgeously rumbly.

Both vibrators have been created in a special edition, cosmic purple colour especially for this anniversary set, and fit into the storage case which neatly doubles as a charging dock. Click to read my full We-Vibe Sync & Tango Anniversary Kit review.

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Valentine's Day Sexy Gift Guide 2019 by Cara Sutra - sex toys bondage gear and lingerie

Light-hearted fun in the bedroom should never be underestimated, and the Wild Weekend Couple’s Sex Toy Kit offers just that. This 11-piece collection isn’t just whale of a good time, it’s also a brilliant way to discover which type of sex toy works best for you –and your partner. What do you get for your almost-£70? There’s a rabbit vibrator, g-spot vibrator, vibrating rabbit ears, butt plug, penis stroker, anal beads, jiggle balls, rabbit cock ring and a cock ring set. Phew! Now there’s a Valentine’s Night you won’t forget in a hurry.

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Valentine's Day Sexy Gift Guide 2019 by Cara Sutra - sex toys bondage gear and lingerie

Clone-A-Willy

An evergreen fave when it comes to shared enjoyment for couples is a Clone-A-Willy Kit. The Clone-A-Willy Kits are brilliantly priced and offer a huge amount of fun. There’s also a Clone-A-Pussy Kit, if you prefer.

With these cloning kits you can create a handsome replica of your genitals, perfect for enjoying when you can’t be together –or, to try out that threesome fantasy… kinda. There’s the classic Clone-A-Willy, but you can also opt for a vibrating style, or various neon colours, even a glow in the dark version!

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Valentine's Day Sexy Gift Guide 2019 by Cara Sutra - sex toys bondage gear and lingerie

Hot Octopuss Sex Toys

I can’t write up a Valentine’s Day Sexy Gift Guide and not include the marvels that are Hot Octopuss. Hot Octopuss sex toys mainly cater to penis stimulation, with the Hot Octopuss Pulse Sex Toys. They’re rechargeable, come in a couple of styles and can be used hands-free, making them extremely accessible.

The Hot Octopuss Queen Bee is the first toy in their collection which is primarily aimed at clitoral stimulation, although the intriguing PulsePlate technology can be enjoyed in many other ways, and areas, too.

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Valentine's Day Sexy Gift Guide 2019 by Cara Sutra - sex toys bondage gear and lingerie

Lingerie

Valentine's Day Sexy Gift Guide 2019 by Cara Sutra - sex toys bondage gear and lingerieHaving recently rediscovered the joy of lingerie, I’m delighted to share some of my top choices with you all in advance of Valentine’s Day 2019. Sexy lingerie remains a firm fave when it comes to romantic Valentine’s Day gifts, so it’s great to know you’re choosing from high-quality collections which not only look sensational but feel amazing while being worn, too.

The Dreamgirl Red Heart Cut-Out Velvet Body is the epitome of Valentine’s Day romance, while Lovehoney’s own lingerie ranges offer you a mind-blowing choice of styles, materials and moods. The Lovehoney Boudoir Belle, Elixir, Midnight Soiree, Moonlight and Seduce Me lingerie ranges are just a few of the options available.

There are some brilliant plus-size lingerie styles too, which not only perfectly cater to curvaceous women, they’re genuinely flattering to the fuller figure and comfortable, too.

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Accessories

Fluidproof Sheets

Valentine's Day Sexy Gift Guide 2019 by Cara Sutra - sex toys bondage gear and lingerieWant nothing more than to get down and dirty this Valentine’s Day –and night? Set the scene first, with the mattress-protecting and sensually slippery sheets from Sheets of San Francisco. There are flat sheets, fitted sheets –even whole duvet sets- made from the magical-seeming fluidproof material.

Sheets of San Francisco sheets are hard wearing, tough enough withstand vigorous play sessions. Crafted to take anything you might want to throw at it (or accidentally spill on it) you can have the wildest play session of your life, without worry. Bodily fluids, lube, chocolate sauce, cream, gunge, waxplay – these sheets will hold it all and more. Then simply stick in the machine (removing any wax from waxplay sessions first). Perfect!

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After-Sex Towel

A smaller, more portable sex-clean-up option is the brilliant Cumpanion sex towel. No more laying around in the wet patch (unless that’s your thing, obvs) or suffering a pretty dire post-sex/masturbation wipe with the nearest t-shirt.

The Cumpanion sex towel by Anna Rae is oval in shape for additional comfort, while the soft microfibre material absorbs fluid, leaving you comfortably dry. It’s machine washable for ease, and now comes in a range of sizes. There’s the original Cumpanion Aftercare Towel, the smaller CuddleBean, and the larger SplashPad.

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Valentine's Day Sexy Gift Guide 2019 by Cara Sutra - sex toys bondage gear and lingerie

Body-Safe Lube

Looking for lube? Slippery sex is much more fun. Grab a bottle of the body-safe, sugar-free, paraben-free and 100% vegan Sliquid Lubricants for some truly sensational sex. Click to read all our Sliquid Lube reviews.

Valentine's Day Sexy Gift Guide 2019 by Cara Sutra - sex toys bondage gear and lingerie

Valentine's Day Sexy Gift Guide 2019 by Cara Sutra - sex toys bondage gear and lingerie

Bedtime Fun On A Budget

Watching the pennies? You don’t have to miss out on a treat for yourself, or feel you’re unable to give a sexy gift to your special someone this year. There’s up to 70% off final clearance items in the Lovehoney Sale, which includes foreplay fun, adult sex games, erotic massage oils & romantic massage candles, and essentials like lube & condoms.

This sale is definitely worth a browse – a lot of discontinued items in particular have their prices seriously slashed in order to clear warehouse space for new arrivals.

I also have a dedicated page where you can find plenty more Valentine’s Day Gifts And Sexy Shopping Offers.

Valentine's Day Sexy Gift Guide 2019 by Cara Sutra - sex toys bondage gear and lingerie

Valentine's Day Sexy Gift Guide 2019 by Cara Sutra - sex toys bondage gear and lingerie

Hoping you all have an extremely orgasmic Valentine’s Day 2019!

Valentine's Day Sexy Gift Guide 2019 by Cara Sutra - sex toys bondage gear and lingerie

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