Sexy Selfies And My Sex Life

Sexy Selfies And My Sex Life

By Cheryl Kaye of HornyGeekGirl

For me a big part of my sex life (especially with those sexy friends who live further away) is sharing sexy photos. This can take many different forms. From a simple and totally PG photo of my smiling face, all the way to a very graphic shot of a very private area. Depending on who I am sending the pictures to and how well I trust them makes a huge difference in the type of photo I will be happy to send.

Sexy Selfies And My Sex Life

If it’s a newer friend who I haven’t met in person yet, then I might be willing (depending on the circumstance) to send them a photo of my chest, or perhaps a full length sexy lingerie shot. Usually I will carefully crop or frame these photos so they don’t include my face. That way if the person does prove untrustworthy and decides to share them, it doesn’t really matter.  I wouldn’t send this type of photo to a guy I met on a dating site, unless I had met him in person, and we were ‘dating’ but with some ‘friends’ I know from twitter I will occasionally (if asked) send something like this.

The “if asked” is a really important part of that paragraph. You should NOT be sending this kind of sexy selfie without permission from the person you are sending it to. Even if you have sent them before, you need to be checking it is okay before sending. Unless they have expressly told you that you are welcome to send them anytime you want, in which case go right ahead. Although, if it’s during the work day I like to double check it is an okay time to send just in case.

I sometimes wish my special friends sent me more sexy selfies but I am rubbish at asking for them, and they are too respectful to send without me asking. That’s probably something I should work on. I do quite like getting sexy selfies from people I’ve had naked fun with, it’s like a little memory prompt. I do NOT appreciate the unsolicited dick pics that still find their way into my email inbox occasionally. Seriously gents if you want to entice me a pic of your cock looking like a big slug crawling out of a straggly bush is really not going to do it.

Sexy Selfies And My Sex Life

The first time a guy asked me if I would send him a sexy photo for ‘inspiration’ I had no idea what to do. We’d already had sex so he knew what I looked like naked but it was still a terrifying prospect for me. I asked him what sort of thing he wanted, and he said “Well, I do love your boobs”.  I pulled off my shirt and sent him the photo I snapped, I was still wearing my bra but you could see my nipples clearly outlined. I had no idea if it was what he meant and I waited anxiously for him to respond. His response was perfect, “Oh Fuck, love that I can see your nipples perked up. That was definitely inspiring. Want to see?”  Of course I wanted to see, and he sent me a photo back. He was still wearing his pants (fitted boxers) but I could see the outline of his erection and there was a definite damp spot by the tip. It made me smile so much.  During our relationship most of the photos I sent him were of my chest, either in a bra or naked, what he sent me were photos of his cock (covered and uncovered) in various states of erection.

Not long after I stopped seeing him I started my HornyGeekGirl blog. I hadn’t intended to share naked photos but I found a blog whose owner ran a BoobDay meme every Friday, there was usually a theme, and it was a fun thing to take part in.  I would take photos and send them to online friends I trusted, asking if they were okay before I shared them publicly. To start with I always tended to be wearing a bra, but slowly as I built my confidence I began sharing photos of my naked chest. I started doing this as a regular thing on Twitter, I called it Flash Friday. Then I started sharing full length photos; I would take them in the mirror, and usually had pants of some description on.  At some point I realised I was no longer worried about what I thought of as my flaws (the fat stomach, wobbly thighs, belly rolls), they were part of me, and in no way impacted on how sexy I was.

It’s funny that sexy selfies could have helped build up my confidence so much but they really have. I am even confident enough now that when requested I can happily send some very graphic and up close images, as well as photos that show much more of me.  I’ve even done a couple of video clips for various gentlemen of my acquaintance.

Sexy Selfies And My Sex Life

Remember sexy selfies don’t have to be obvious in what they show, if you’re not completely comfortable showing certain parts of your body you can always show other things; a photo showing someone the bruises they left after a caning session can be really erotic, as can photos of bruises from bitemarks.

I love using sexy selfies to build anticipation when a meet-up is due to happen, or afterwards as a nice little memory aid.  Sexy selfies are a great addition to my sexy single life.

– Cheryl Kaye


About the writer: I’m Cheryl Kaye, I started blogging as HornyGeekGirl two years ago but I have always been a writer. I’ve loved telling stories ever since I was young. I started by making up life stories and scenes for my dolls and toys, and since then I’ve written about many different subjects but none of them have felt as right to me as the writing I do now. You can check out my website at http://hornygeekgirl.com. You can also follow me on Twitter and Facebook.

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