Essential Info For Satisfying Threesomes

Hella Rude writes for Ask Men

What springs to mind when you hear the word ‘threesome’? Have you ever had the pleasure of one – or is a threesome high on your list of fantasies yet to be made reality? Although porn has helped to make threesomes seem really easy to arrange and always super sexy, the reality can often be far removed from the fantasy.

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Sex expert & writer Hella Rude has written a fantastic piece about threesomes over at AskMen.com. This article looks at threesomes from a real life point of view rather than through the lubed-up lens of a porn camera.

Things You Only Know If You’ve Had a Threesome includes anecdotal advice & tips from porn star Dick James, model & burlesque artiste Ruby Derrière, sex blogger Just Indecerous and myself.

From my point of view I wanted to convey that although threesomes can definitely be hot and sexy, they can also be hard work. Reality is often much different to how you imagine in those wank-fuel fantasies, and in my opinion this is especially true of threesomes. During a fantasy the scenario is purely for your benefit, with other people doing things to you, for you. It can be difficult when you realise that actually, having two other people in the room means two other people to co-ordinate without  sounding like some sexual sergeant major, two other people to empathise with and try to make sure they’re having as much fun as you, and two other people to include in some way – whether they’re fucking each other in front of you or watching you fuck the third person etc. You don’t want anyone feeling like a spare part, or end up with hurt feelings, jealousy and insecurity or even potential damage to a relationship.

A future article at CaraSutra will explore need to know facts about threesomes in more depth, but for now you can pop across to AskMen.com to discover essential info for satisfying threesomes from those in the know.


Thanks Hella! Read more from Hella Rude right here at CaraSutra.

 

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