Deep Throat Fucking: When You Have A Cock Sucking Fetish

By Cara Sutra

When I asked a few weeks back, on Twitter and other social media, which fetishes people would like to see written up for Fetish Friday, I wasn’t expecting deep throat fucking to be one of them. For me, deep throat fucking is in the realms of ‘rough sex’ rather than kink, but then we all have different ideas about what is ‘vanilla’ and ‘what is kinky’ because we’re judging it a lot of the time on what feels taboo, alternative or different for US. Some are pretty universally accepted as kinks or fetishes, such as bondage, corporal punishment (spanking) and CBT, but there are (wait for it) shades of grey. Sorry.

Deep Throat Fucking: When You Have A Cock Sucking FetishI enjoy having my throat fucked as deeply as possible without passing out or being sick everywhere. That’s fucking sexy to me. Yes, it is difficult and yes it is sore at times. But that’s all part of the hot ravaging sensation which comes along with having your throat fucked. Note: we’re not just talking about your mouth being fucked here; it’s most definitely your throat.

What Is Deep Throat Fucking?

There’s none of that seductive wrapping your tongue around his shaft and languorously letting your fingers caress his balls as you circle his penis tip with your tongue, teasing him to climax. No tasting his pre-cum as he slowly leaks out his need to orgasm as you wind him up, delicately but definitely in your expert mouth. Oh sure, it may START like that – but once deep throat fucking begins you don’t taste anything. You don’t lick anything. Also, you barely breathe – and you may not see anything either. Well, except for the dizzying vision of black, white and stars passing in front of your eyes.

You’re a hole to be fucked. Not your cunt this time, not your arse. Your throat. Dragging as much air into your lungs through your nose as you can, in between having your hair gripped tightly and your head moved back and forth in a motion that clearly states you’re nothing more than a fuck toy to him right now. He’s going to fuck your throat, enjoy your rasping noises of complaint between thrusts and he’s going to cum with his penis tip beyond your tonsils and shoot his hot liquid straight down your throat. There won’t even be the chance to taste a drop on your tongue or in your mouth. It’s way beyond that – your mouth is merely the passageway to the real fuck entrance he’s interested in.

Challenges Of Being Throat Fucked

When you start off being fucked in the throat, it’s very difficult. It was for me, anyway. This is all from personal experience, please remember: I am not all women and your mileage may vary. You may find it easy, right from the start or you may never want to try it at all. I had to overcome the feeling of suffocation, that I couldn’t breathe, I was going to pass out or be sick everywhere.

I still get those moments where I feel like I’m going to be sick, due to the natural gag reflex, but with experience it’s become easier to hold back that need and not chuck up all over the bed. Because neither of us would find this sexy. If you would, all power to you; my advice is stick down a few PVC sheets first though and have a cold shower ready for afterwards (cooked on sick isn’t a great smell).

Tips & Tricks For Deep Throat Fucking Success

Remember that you do have a nose to breathe through. It’s very easy to forget this, as silly as that sounds. Deep throat fucking leads to a  passionate session and it’s very intense, so don’t expect your brain to function as rationally and reasonably as it normally would. When you get the chance, draw air into your nose and breathe that way. Don’t forget to breathe out. So yeah, my top tip is basically don’t forget to breathe when at all possible.

How are you at giving blow jobs? Do you enjoy them? If you don’t, you probably won’t like deep throat fucking, in my opinion. If you love them, then all steam ahead. Or should that be ‘all steamy’? You can encourage your partner to fucking your mouth a bit harder than he usually would. He might be tentative about doing this, as caring partners are usually very aware that they’re fucking a mouth and don’t want to cause any damage or hurt the one giving the oral sex. Remind him that this is consensual, and if you take it slowly then you will be able to communicate your comfort levels (both physical and mental) to him in plenty of time to stop the activity before you become hurt or upset.

Safety Aspects

Talking about consent, for all sexual or adult psychological play where someone may be at risk of physical or mental hurt, consent is a must. This shouldn’t need to be stated. What is also highly recommended (I would personally go so far as to say required, but this is your personal choice of course) is a safeword or some way of ‘safing out’. No matter how well you think you know your partner or they know you, there are always aspects of people that aren’t shown to others. Even after years. A certain action or activity may even trigger feelings that surface due to a past event or relationship and you might not even have any warning that a certain thing would affect you negatively. You can read more about safewords in this related article.

Why am I talking about safewords in an article about deep throat fucking? Because when you have not just your mouth full but your throat too, you won’t be able to utter a word letting your partner know that you’re not happy and want to stop. It’s a good idea, then, to have a way of safing out which doesn’t require vocalised words. A buzzer to press, or finger signals or even pinching your partner’s thigh – whatever it is, arrange it beforehand just in case. Not only will this safeguard you against being hurt in the deep throat fucking process, it will also give your partner the freedom to fuck your throat as hard as he really wants, without holding back (if that’s the level you’re at).

Hair Up!

A final tip from my own experience: although it’s very sexy and porn star to have your hair (if it’s long) all messy and flying everywhere wantonly while you’re getting your throat fucked, in reality it can get in the way. It can also make you hotter, and make you feel a little claustrophobic. Your partner may hold a lot of your hair back when he’s fucking your throat, but this isn’t guaranteed for the whole session. I try to put mine up in a loose ponytail if I know any kind of mouth or throat fucking is on the cards. This has the added bonus of being able to look up straight into his eyes when he’s fucking my throat hard – and he can enjoy me crying and being completely vulnerable, unable to stop the onslaught of cock down my throat.

Your Thoughts

What are your thoughts on deep throat fucking? Any tips or experiences to share? Is it something you’ve tried or a complete turn off? Please tell us in the comments below!

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2 Responses to “Deep Throat Fucking: When You Have A Cock Sucking Fetish”

  1. kebabjones76

    I’m getting there, but so far just got it into my throat holding still and me trying not to gag tho he likes it if I do “sick up ” a little when he hold my head down. I love it so much hope I can go further

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