Sex Tips For Older Men – Over 50s Masturbation

Sex Tips For Older Men

Q: The Men’s Health article you retweeted  talked about the benefits of masturbation. Apart from resorting to porn (quite boring and I would never dream of looking online in case something I wasn’t expecting turned up), what other ideas are there to fire the imagination, switch the ignition button and getting those of us who are a bit older (well, 50) going? They need to be interesting, different and ethical (and fun!)

Sex Tips For Older Men - Over 50s Masturbation - Hella Rude
A: There are plenty of ways you can spice up masturbation in your 50s!

I agree that porn films can be hit and miss and that it’s all too easy to wind up watching entirely the wrong film, especially if you take your chances with a pot luck search. It’s en vogue for pornography to be pretty extreme at the moment and much of it is geared toward the sexually-inexperienced lad’s mag culture and the more fetishy side of play. You’re not alone in finding pneumatic drilling and super-charged anal about as erotic as a cheese-wire thong.

There are a lot of options out there though and with a little reading you can find lots of highly-recommended films that feature content that tickles your fancy. I saw a fairly good film called ‘Cabaret Desire‘, which I reviewed for this blog a couple of years ago. It deviates from your usual pornographic films by bringing in abstract story lines and putting some real feeling and effort into the sex scenes. Looking for ‘erotic films’ instead of ‘porn’ makes quite a bit of difference to the results, even if they are rated hardcore. Try a Google search for ‘erotic film review’ to get some titles and do a little research. You might something that’s ideal for the cause.

If you’re interested in literature then reading erotic books could be a new avenue for you to explore. Just like porn films, there are stories revolving around pretty much any theme but they come with the added bonus of giving you 50% of the erotic input. Using your imagination to construct the scenes you’re reading about gives you the opportunity to form the perfect characters and pace of play. The more you read, the more vivid your imagination becomes and the better you’ll become at constructing your own erotic fantasies.

It’s not all about psychological stimulus though. Sensation plays a real part in good masturbation and for most of us the hand does get tiresome and at times, hard work! Investing in sex toys for masturbation is a great way to liven up your solo sex life. Strokers and male masturbators teamed with some lubricant will heighten sexual sensation beyond what your hand can do.

Prostate massagers, if you’re feeling adventurous, will show you a whole new way to masturbate without needing to use your hands. It can take a while to get the rocking motions right, but by inserting one of these specialist anal toys you many find that you can work your way to a hands-free orgasm without your penis even being involved. Now that’s sure to keep things interesting for a while!

– Hella Rude


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