Beginner’s Guide To Pegging Sex Toys, Strap On Harnesses And Strap On Dildos

Beginner’s Guide To Strap On Harnesses & Strap On Dildos

By Cara Sutra

I wanted to write a blog post about the strap on harnesses I have and the strap on dildos I use with them. I own three strap on harnesses:

Sportsheets Sedeux Velvet Harness with Vibrating Bullet
Vac U Lock Lucid Dream No 9
Sharon Sloane Latex Double G Pleasure Briefs

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Firstly, we will cover the Sedeux. The Sportsheets Sedeux Velvet Harness with Vibrating Bullet comes with three size O rings, which any flare base or harness compatible dildo (strap on dildos) will fit into.

The sizes of the rings are: 1.5″, 1.75″ and 2″. These are the perfect range of sizes to fit most strap on dildos I’ve come across.

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If I did require any more/replacement O rings, the Sportsheets O-Ring Set of 4 is a good price and also includes the smaller 1.25″ ring – useful for teeny beginner toys.

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I like my Sportsheets Sedeux Velvet Harness with Vibrating Bullet because it is very versatile, fitting a waist anywhere between my 26 inches and up to a maximum of 68 inches. So I’m ok for the ice-cream party. The leg straps will fit between 14 up to 34 inches circumference. I’m loathe to say it will fit any woman… but you can see how adaptable this item really is.

The front panel is sweetly padded and has a very tactile velvety surface. Down the centre of this pad is a secret pocket, inside which you may wish to place the accompanying bullet that comes with the Sedeux Harness. This bullet is amazingly powerful and really helps you get your rocks off whilst using the strap on with your choice of strap on dildos. You can see how much I loved the bullet in my product review at Lovehoney.

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The handy thing about the clit bullet pocket is that I can use pretty much any bullet that I choose in this space, such as my favourites, either the Tracey Cox Supersex Bullet or the RO-80mm Ammunition Love bullet.

The o rings, and therefore any attached strap on dildos, are held to the padded front section by means of four heavy duty popper fasten studs. These securely hold your toys of choice in position whilst you make love to your lucky recipient/intimidate your victim (depending on the setting of your session!)

The easily adjustable buckle style straps around your legs mean that you have full motion available to your legs, as they are attached to each one separately, not binding them together. This also leaves your own sexual area free to be filled with not only vaginal toys but also anal plugs if you wish to really turn the heat up a notch or two…

Imagine using this whilst filled with perhaps… a remote controlled love egg with 10 settings, a small, medium or large Doc Johnson Butt Plug and the small but powerful bullet snugly trapped against your erect clit. Even thinking about it has me close to the edge…

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The strap on dildos I have used with my strap ons vary in size, so I have one for every occasion. For use with the Sedeux, I have the butt plugs, Basix Mini Butt Plug and the Doc Johnson Crystal Jelly Anal Delight, both in purple. Well I had to accessorise with the purple colour on the Sedeux Harness, I am a girl, after all.

The regular strap on dildos I have that fit the Sedeux are: Basix G-Spot Dildo 5 Inch (purple again), Basix Realistic Slim 7 Inch Dildo (you guessed it, in purple) and the Extra Thick 9 Inch Solid Cock & Balls With Suction which let me tell you now, is HUGE. Scarily so.

Still working my way up to taking the shockingly wide 9 incher myself… perhaps a willing volunteer will be able to take it for me? *grin*

So that’s the Sportsheets Sedeux Velvet Harness with Vibrating Bullet and my collection of accompanying bullets and strap on dildos covered.

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The Vac U Lock Lucid Dream No 9 Harness comprises the world famous Doc Johnson Vac U Lock Harness system and a special G Spot Dildo attachment.

You have the option of purchasing the standard Vac U Lock Ultra Harness if you wish for the harness without the specialised G Spot attachment.

Vac U Lock compatible strap on dildos will fit on to this vacuum sealed plug system. The system works incredibly well, a simple pop on and pop off release mechanism which I find to be even more secure than the Sedeux.

You may wish to ease the fitting of strap on dildos to the plug by means of this powder. Replacement plugs can be bought in time and there are even special double ended plugs so that you can enjoy being filled from the other side of the same attachment, in much the same way as my much loved Doc Johnson Junior Double Dildo 12 Inch fills and thrills both my partner and I.

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At the moment, the only two dildos I have which fit my wonderful Vac U Lock are the pink G Spot attachment in the box it came with, and I bought the more realistic and entirely thrilling Classic 8 inch Dong.

Due to the open crotch design of the harness, you are again able to combine your strap on session with both vaginal and anal play, and the harness itself is very easy to both fit and use. To quote a playmate, its like ‘having [your] very own cock!’

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The Sharon Sloane Latex Double G Pleasure Briefs aren’t strictly speaking a strap on I guess, as they are an all in one moulded and fashioned panty that has an internal dildo (5 inches) and an external one to use on and in your partner (7 inches) without the option of exchanging these.

Having said that, the price is very agreeable and perfect for those strap on newbies or anyone unsure if strap on play is for them. These briefs are easy to wear and come in a small, medium or large size, which I would advise would be to fit a maximum of a UK 16.

The stretchy latex is ideal for a gentler type of play and the soft spongy texture of the dildos make for a tender experience rather than a rigid and rugged session.

Be aware that latex does tear with frequent stretching and/or rough use so these are not likely to be as long lasting an investment as the Sportsheets Sedeux Strap On Harness or Vac U Lock.

I like to combine some role play with my strap on, fitting condoms to the dildos and suchlike. For anal play this also has the dual purpose of keeping the toys as clean as possible which is always a plus.

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Make sure you have some good lubes to hand, I personally love the Durex Play Feel, the Sliquid Organics Natural Warming Lubricant, or Liquid Silk. A water based lubricant is always a good idea to avoid any damage to your silicone or latex toys, plus avoiding any skin irritations for those more sensitive types.

I hope you have enjoyed the little wander through my strap on harnesses and strap on dildos. For more reading on the subject why not check out Lovehoney’s Strap-on Harnesses Style Guide plus their fantastic The Easy Guide to Strap-On Harnesses, Compatible Dildos and O-Rings.

 

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